Power to Change—Live Different – Teacher’s Guide

November 18, 2025

Volume 3

We have come a significant way pursuing our theme of transformation, “The Power to Change.” In this quarter’s lessons, we will be considering different aspects of stewardship, living by faith, walking in authority, obedience and sanctification, marriage, parenting, finances, and more. Good stewardship of all of God’s resources requires understanding God’s grace and co-laboring with God to become overcomers and live victoriously. We challenge you to “Live Different.” Pastor Jon Carson

Table of Contents

Lesson 1 – Stewardship.
Lesson 2 – Living by Faith.
Lesson 3 – Walking in Authority.
Lesson 4 – Order in God’s House.
Lesson 5 – Total Obedience.
Lesson 6 – Sanctification: God’s Honor Code.
Lesson 7 – Sowing and Reaping.
Lesson 8 – Foundations of a Godly Marriage.
Lesson 9 – Maintaining a Godly Marriage.
Lesson 10 – Parenting – The Highest Level of Stewardship.
Lesson 11 – Living in Divine Health.
Lesson 12 – The Example of the Believer
Lesson 13 – Quarter Review..

This series of lessons called “Power to Change” and “The Fruit of the Spirit—Evidence of Change” were generously shared by the Shiloh Church of God 7th Day, 5701 Eastern Avenue, Hyattsville, MD and has been adapted for use by the General Council Churches of God, (Seventh Day), Inc.

We are pleased to share these lessons for your spiritual enrichment. As with the ACTS magazine,
we would like to take a moment and remind our readers that the General Council Churches of God, (Seventh Day),
is in a state of constant growth and we all have different backgrounds, it is possible that your views may differ somewhat
from those presented in this study. We pray these lessons may be used as a point of entry for your own study.
“Test all things; hold fast what is good” (1 Thessalonians 5:21).

Lesson 1 – Stewardship

Scripture Text: Matthew 25:14-30

Memory Verse: “And cast the unprofitable servant into the outer darkness. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.” Matthew 25:30

Lesson Aim: To emphasize the importance and impact stewardship has on our lives.

Key Points All that we have really belongs to God. We can be good stewards only by God’s grace. Co-labor with God… make the most of what God has entrusted to us.

When we mention stewardship, the majority of the time, we immediately think about money. However, stewardship also covers other aspects of our lives; for example, our families, our relationships with God and others, our talents, gifts, and abilities. God has entrusted all these and more to us. The concept of stewardship is important to how we live and our view of life.

The World Book Dictionary defines a steward as, “A man who manages another’s property.”[1] The universe is God’s property. In Genesis, God appointed Adam steward of His property. Adam was given dominion over the earth and God put him in the Garden of Eden to dress and keep it. We show up many generations later and as people of God, it is important that we recognize that all that we have still belongs to God. God has entrusted each of us with a life, a body, health, family, finances, talents, gifts, abilities, and spiritual things.

Value is a vital concept to understanding stewardship. The things that we appreciate are the things we value. The Word of God explains that where our treasure is, there will our hearts be also (Matthew 6:21). We will take care of what we appreciate. Unfortunately, we take much of God’s goodness and His gifts for granted. However, God expects us to value what He has entrusted to us. God expects increase. This is true of the natural as well as the spiritual. He does not appreciate waste and misuse, whether it is our bodies and minds, spiritual gifts, or monetary wealth.

Many of God’s gifts are a result of His sovereign move. However, we can be good stewards only by God’s grace, but it requires conscious effort on our part. We have to co-labor with God to make the best use and get the most value out of what He has entrusted to us. We only have one earthly life to live. What are we doing with it? Are we living differently than the world? Are we making the most of what God has given us to expand His Kingdom or are we content to simply exist, or pursue our selfish interests?

Each of us needs to step back and examine the way we think, talk, and live in the context of good stewardship. How do we view our lives, our assignments, and our roles as members of the Body of Christ? Do we value the simple but powerful blessings and promises of God? Do we treasure them enough to believe? Are we willing to give up God’s possessions for His purposes or are we so attached to His things that we think, talk, and act as if they were ours? These are some questions we need to ask ourselves as we consider our responsibilities as God’s stewards and take on the challenge to live differently.

Questions and Discussion

What is involved in being a good steward? Matthew 25:15, 20-23; Luke 12:42-43

Ans.: Co-laboring (the doing part in obedience to the Master). Using the ability God has given you and producing gain, adding value. Other things might include: wisdom, understanding, appreciation, industriousness. Opposites would be disobedience, laziness, ignorance, struggling on your own.

Why is it important that we understand stewardship and our duty to be good stewards? Matthew 25:14-15, 19-26, 30; Luke 12:48; Luke 13:6-9

Ans.: God has entrusted us to add value, to be fruitful and multiply. He expects us to be profitable to Him. To whom much is given, much is required.

What do these verses tell us about ourselves and our possessions? Psalm 100:3; 1 Corinthians 6:20; Psalm 50:10-12; Haggai 2:8

Ans.: We belong to God; we are His people; our bodies and our spirits are His; everything on the earth belongs to God; the silver and the gold.

How are we called to be good stewards in terms of our relationship with God? 1 Peter 2:9-10; Romans
12:1-2; Job 23:12; 1 Corinthians 2:12; 1 Peter 4:10

Ans.: Everyone that God has called is His. We are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a peculiar people. We are now the people of God. We are called to rededicate ourselves back to God. Treasure the Word of God. Use the spiritual gifts for the good of the church.

How are we called to be good stewards in terms of our relationships in the Body of Christ? Romans 12:10; Ephesians 4:11-13; Hebrews 13:17

Ans.: Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love (treat everyone in love). He gave apostles, evangelists, prophets… for the perfecting of the saints and the edifying of the Body of Christ. Submit yourselves to those that have the rule over you.

What are some of the other things that we need to be good stewards of? Joshua 24:15; 1 Samuel 1:26-28

Ans.: Various answers should include: Our time; our marriages, our finances, church building, other possessions, relationships, natural and spiritual giftings; God’s presence.

How will being a good steward cause us to live differently?

Ans.: Various answers from volunteers. Use as a wrap-up question to end class.

Lesson 2 – Living by Faith

Scripture Text: Hebrews 11:1-13

Memory Verse: “Now the just shall live by faith; but if anyone draws back, my soul has no pleasure in him.” Hebrews 10:38

Lesson Aim: To show that the walk of the believer is a lifestyle of faith.

Key Points: Without faith it is impossible to please God. Faith is the essence of one’s relationship with God. The life Jesus lived in the flesh was a life of faith. A victorious life can be obtained through faith.

What is faith? The Scripture states, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1). In other words, it is the assurance, the confirmation of what we are expecting, and is the proof and the conviction of what we do not perceive with our senses.[2] Understanding what faith is, we therefore realize that faith is the essence of the believer’s relationship with God. Hebrews 11:6 states, “But without faith it is impossible to please Him…” Living by faith is a walk that a believer begins with the acceptance and confession of Jesus Christ as the Son of God. It also entails trusting God for everything: the basic needs of life, facing challenges, direction for our lives, healing, health, etc.

This walk requires an unwavering confidence and unconditional trust in the Father and the Master Lord Jesus Christ. Down through the ages, faith has been the foundation upon which God-fearing men and women have built their relationship with God. It enabled them to endure destitution, torture, trials of cruel mocking, scourging, stoning, afflictions, torment, bonds, and imprisonment. It is this type of unwavering and unmovable faith the believers of the 21^st Century must exercise to endure life’s challenges, persecution, prosecution, other difficulties and to maintain an open relationship with God.

Of all the great men and women of faith that Paul listed – Enoch, Noah, Abraham, Sarah, Moses, Rahab, etc. – he presented Jesus as the supreme example of perfect faith. By faith, in speaking the Word, Jesus defeated Satan in the wilderness. By faith He performed miracles – healed the blind, the deaf, the lame and raised the dead. By faith Jesus proclaimed the words of life. By faith He committed Himself into the hands of God in the Garden of Gethsemane. By faith Jesus endured the agony of the cross and conquered death, hell, and the grave. He rose in triumph over Satan and all his evil principalities and powers and is now seated in a position of supreme power and authority at the right hand of the Father. The war has been won. Jesus has overcome the world! Because of this victory, He has become the author – the source of our faith, and the finisher – bringing our faith to maturity.

As we abide in Him through constant fellowship and communion, and as His words abide in us, molding and conforming us into His image; we have access to faith which enables us to “…ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you” (John 15:7). Not only that, but God takes great pleasure in seeing His children walk in obedience by operating in faith. It truly pleases Him.

A life of victory is available to us when we think, walk, talk, and act faith. The words of the Apostle Paul as recorded in Galatians 2:20 sum up quite well what it means to live by faith. His words are, “I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the FAITH of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me” (KJV emphasis added).Now that’s living by faith!

Questions and Discussion

What is the ultimate purpose of faith? Romans 1:17; Hebrews 10:38; 11:6; Habakkuk 2:4

Ans.: The ultimate purpose is to live by faith, and in so doing, one will please God.

What are some of the things faith will accomplish? 2 Timothy 3:15; Matthew 9:22; Galatians 3:14; 1 John 5:4

Ans.: Wisdom unto salvation; healing/deliverance; blessing of Abraham; overcomer.

How is faith manifested by the believer? James 2:18; Luke 5:18-20

Ans.: By the believer’s works, one’s actions.

What are some steps we can take to live a victorious life of faith? Proverbs 3:5-6; James 1:22-23; James
4:7-8; Joshua 1:8

Ans.: Trust in the Lord; become a doer of the Word; submit to God and resist the devil; meditate upon the Word.

How are we justified in the eyes of God? Acts 15:8-9; Romans 3:28; 5:1-2; Galatians 2:16; 3:24

Ans.: By faith. Note: Define justified/justification for the audience. This will amplify the awesome love Christ showed at Calvary and bolster the importance of having faith.

How far should we go in trusting and obeying God? 1 Timothy 6:11-12; Revelation 2:10; Proverbs 3:5

Ans.: Follow after it; fight the good fight of faith; be faithful until death; trust in Him with all our heart.

Why should we continue to have faith despite evident obstacles and present difficulties? 2 Corinthians
4:17-18 Discuss.

Ans.: What we experience here and now is considered “light affliction” that will last a short while. But the results of maintaining your trust (faith) in God, is an eternal weight of glory. What we see now is temporal, but what we do not see is eternal – the glory that shall be revealed in us.

Wrap up: Faith is the core, the essence of the believer’s walk with the Lord. Our ultimate goal is to please God, and we can only do so by faith. Nothing else moves God but our faith! Living a victorious life requires faith.

Lesson 3 – Walking in Authority

Scripture Text: Nehemiah 4

Memory Verse: “Behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means hurt you.” Luke 10:19

Lesson Aim: To explore the importance of our recognizing and walking in the authority God has given us.

Key Points: Walking in authority is a matter of position, posture, and preparedness. Preparedness is to be fit or suitable, adapted, ready. God has given us power over all the power of the enemy. It is important to recognize and use the authority God gave us.

Not too far from our church, a representative of the police department is parked with a camera and radar detector. His sole purpose is to get a picture of all who are driving over the speed limit. The governing body of the city passed laws that give him the authorization to carry out the duties that are assigned to the position of a police officer. Whether he gives out a ticket or not, he is walking in authority. Walking in authority is more than a mere authorization to act or legal power. It is a matter of position, posture, and preparedness.

Position is sometimes used to define a point occupied by troops for tactical reasons. God has strategically positioned each member of the Body of Christ as an offense for His next move and a defense against the plans of the enemy. One such instance is in Nehemiah 4 where the people of God were under constant threat as they rebuilt the walls of Jerusalem. Some of the men guarded the work while others worked with a sword by their side. There were even some who worked with one hand while holding a weapon in the other.

The Body of Christ should take the stance of the men who worked with weapon in hand. We should be fully aware of the enemy’s threats but understand that the primary purpose of the authority God has given us is to advance the Kingdom of Heaven.

Posture denotes the believer’s inclination, natural attitude toward present conditions. In the account related above, Nehemiah’s posture was steadfast, unmovable, and always abounding in the work of the Lord. No matter what challenges he faced, Nehemiah was determined to complete his assignment. He refused to be distracted by meetings, and he was never fooled by the deception of others, as he remained focused on advancing the kingdom of God despite the adversity. As people of authority, our attitude should be the same regardless of the condition.

Preparedness is defined as made fit or suitable, adapted, ready. Not only were the men in Nehemiah’s account prepared mentally (in thought), but also their preparedness was evident in their attire. They were dressed with the tools to build and armor to fight. They were ready to defend if attacked. This is very similar to what Paul wrote to the church of Ephesus when he admonished them “Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand” (Ephesians 6:13). Paul’s primary focus in Ephesians 6 was to make sure the Body was prepared to fight when the evil day came.

Questions and Discussion

Why is understanding authority important? Romans 13:1-7

Ans.: Understanding authority impacts the way we live. How we respond to those who have the rule over us will determine our ability to rule.

In the context of Luke 9:1 and Luke 10:19, what has God given us authority over?

Ans.: Both exousia and dunamis are used in these verses. In Luke 9:1, the 12 disciples were given exousia, i.e., the ability, might, force, plus the right or permission to cure diseases and cast out devils. In Luke 10:19, we have the authority to tread over serpents and scorpions and over all of the enemy’s ability, might, or force. We have authority over everything in the Kingdom of Darkness.

How does position impact our ability to walk in authority? Ephesians 2:5-6; 4:11, 15; Titus 1:5; 2:15

Ans.: One’s position will either enable or hinder our ability to walk in authority. We must be properly positioned in Christ. We must make sure that our vertical alignment is intact. We should also consider position in terms of the role that we have in the Body of Christ.

What can we learn from Nehemiah’s example? Nehemiah 4

Ans.: Position – He was at the right place, where God put him.
Posture – Steadfast attitude.
Preparedness – Had on his armor, used the tools.

How can we walk more effectively in God-given authority? Galatians 5:1; 2 Timothy 2:15; James 4:7; 1 Peter 3:7 Ans.: Stand fast. Study the Word of God; submit to God and resist the devil; learn to dwell with your wife in wisdom.

Lesson 4 – Order in God’s House

Scripture Text: Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

Memory Verse: Let all things be done decently and in order. 1 Corinthians 14:40

Lesson Aim: To explore the relevance and importance of having order in the local church.

Key Points: Everything in life has its proper place and its proper fit in God’s scheme. God is not the author of confusion. When things are lined up as ordered by God, the Spirit of the Lord can move freely.

Order! One of the definitions for order in Webster’ New College Dictionary is, “A state or condition in which everything is in its right place and functioning properly.”[3] Everything in life has its proper place and its proper fit in God’s scheme of things. Each of us has our proper place in the Body of Christ. Order is necessary – in a family, a church, a mathematical problem, or a time sequence. Order allows people and relationships, systems and processes to work together. Disorder creates problems – from various levels of dysfunction to chaos and confusion.

Order is important in God’s house. God is a God of purpose, design, and results. The Scripture clearly states that God is not the author of confusion (1 Corinthians 14:33). Order is necessary for the good of the church. Whether it is individual ministry, corporate worship, or community outreach, without order, the ministry is bound to come short.

Throughout the Bible we can see God establishing order. In Genesis, He arranged the world. In Exodus, He set up order among the Levites. There was order in sacrifices and order in the priestly functions. Throughout the Pentateuch, He established order in how the Israelites should live. In Chronicles, we see David and Solomon establishing order in worship ministry. In Ecclesiastes, the preacher lets us know there is a time for everything. Isaiah prophesied that the Messiah would order His Kingdom and establish it with judgment.

When something is “out-of-order,” the immediate result is dysfunction, a decline in usefulness. It does not work as intended. Lack of order reduces productivity and effectiveness. Purposes are thwarted, results are not achieved, and dreams are not reached.

Understanding order in God’s house today requires awareness and willingness for us to recognize and follow God’s order. Reverencing God’s sanctuary and His presence is a part of that order. Submitting to God’s authority in the home and the church is also a part of that order. God moves in order. When things are lined up as ordered by God, the Spirit of the Lord can move freely.

Just as the world has come up with its own order, the modern church has produced its version of order. We must be careful not to reject God’s blueprint to try our own. The result will always be inferior to God’s way. Establishing God’s order in our lives and in the church is a matter of co-laboring. Where the Spirit of the Lord is there is liberty, but there is also self-restraint because the fruit of the Spirit includes temperance.

Submitting to God’s order requires personal self-restraint, responsibility, and accountability. From the pulpit to the pew, there has to be a new emphasis on doing things properly. We can no longer offer God our sacrifices and our services just any way. We should be careful not to use our liberty as a root for disorder. Every man cannot be left to do what is right in his own eyes. We must be careful that whatever we do in God’s house should fulfill God’s purposes of edification, deliverance, and transformation.

Questions and Discussion

Why is order in the Body of Christ necessary? Psalm 37:23; 1 Corinthians 12:28; 14:12, 33; 2 Thessalonians 3:11; Titus 1:5

Ans.: The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord. God has set order in ministry. Without order, you have confusion. Order impacts the effectiveness of ministry. There are different applications of order. Order promotes predictability. We need order because there are people who will be disorderly. Touch on protocol, different administrations, and operations.

Reverence is a part of order in God’s house. What is reverence and what does it mean to reverence God’s sanctuary? Leviticus 19:30; Exodus 28:42-43; Nehemiah 8:5; 2 Chronicles 29:3-5, 15-19, 28-29; Ecclesiastes 3:7(b)

Ans.: Reverence is respect, honor, esteem, profound adoring. Reverence promotes order. It requires a consciousness to not detract from God’s glory. Verse in Nehemiah explains why the pulpit is above the congregation and the practice of standing during Scripture reading. It’s mostly attitude. Discuss how we should treat the building, quietness during prayer; no chewing gum and eating in the sanctuary; busyness during worship. Note the tie to Sabbath keeping and reverencing His sanctuary. This includes how we live, what we say, what we wear, cleanliness of the sanctuary, etc.; a time to speak and a time to keep silence.

What does it mean to reverence God’s presence? Psalm 100:4; Habakkuk 2:20; 1 Kings 19:11-13; 2 Chronicles 7:1-3

Ans.: Enter into His gates with thanksgiving… The Lord is in His holy temple, let all the earth keep silence; Elijah and the still small voice; the glory descending on the temple. Touch on being a host to the Holy Spirit. This goes to motives, expectations and understanding the purpose of corporate worship. The question may come up as to “How do we know God is present?” When God shows up, you worship. He dwells in the tehillah of His people.

What is the importance of following instructions and doing things God’s way? Joshua 6:3, 10; 1 Samuel 13:8-14, 22-23; 1 Kings 13

Ans.: Point to God’s specific instructions to the Israelites to defeat Jericho. Note how they were supposed to be silent for the six days and not speak until they were commanded to. You can be chosen of God but still lose out. You can even be used of God, but still suffer the consequences of disobedience.

Why is it necessary to balance our liberty with order? Proverbs 25:28; 1 Corinthians 12:7; 14:23-26, 29-33, 37-38, 40; 1 Peter 2:13, 16

Ans.: If you cannot manage yourself, you are defenseless. The manifestation of the Spirit is given to every man to profit withal – edification; not for us to look crazy; order in prophecy; Let all things be done decently and in order. Submit to every ordinance of man for the Lord’s sake, not using our liberty as a cloak of maliciousness.

Lesson 5 – Total Obedience

Scripture Text: 1 Samuel 15:1-28

Memory Text: So Samual said: “He the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed than the fat of rams.” 1 Samuel 15:22

Lesson Aim: To establish the importance of maintaining relationship with God and others through obedience.

Key Points: The pulse of one’s relationship with God is obedience. Obedience liberates the believer. Obedience is a complete lifestyle.

The Omnipotent God, the Creator of heaven and earth, the Master of the universe, the Conductor of every orchestrated breath of air we draw, the Keeper and Lover of our souls rests His hand on the pulse of our relationship with Him – obedience! Our obedience to God proves that there is a level of relationship, love, and admiration. We choose to obey God! God entreats us to love Him and that love relationship translates into obedience.

Before there were any written laws, God gave Adam and Eve free access to everything in the Garden of Eden except the tree of knowledge of good and evil. God told them that of this tree they should not eat, for in the day they do they would surely die. It is quite obvious to us today that Adam disobeyed God’s command because mankind has been suffering with the consequences of Adam and Eve’s decision to disobey God’s command.

So often obedience is characterized as bondage. The opposite is true of obedience. True liberation is found through obedience. Obedience sets us free. Obedience gives us an identity; it affirms us. Obedience gives us an arena in which to operate where there are no hindrances; there is no wondering what will happen to us, because the power of God surrounds us. Bondage comes when there is disobedience. That is when the heaviness, fear, and guilt come. But when there is total obedience, there is no fear. There is no guilt. There is liberty, joy, and happiness (Hagin).[4]

Obedience is not just an act, or a series of actions; obedience is a complete lifestyle; a life principle or attitude of heart by which to live. “Faith is of the heart, invisible to men; obedience is of the conduct and may be observed. When a man obeys God he gives the only possible evidence that in his heart he believes God.”[5]

In the past, some of us may have pondered the question, “Why is the power of God not manifested in my life?” Without total obedience, God cannot trust us with His power! It is when we come in line with Him and His Word in every area of our lives, that God can fully trust us. Then we are no longer out to serve ourselves, but we are dedicated to His service.

Many Christians today are walking in disobedience to God and have not realized it. This disobedience has hindered them from receiving God’s best in their lives. God also has great victories He wants to lead them into! Yet for some, disobedience is the reason their prayers have not been answered, or the longings of their hearts have not been fulfilled. It may be that God has spoken to their hearts to do something for Him, but they have flatly refused to obey. For others, it may be that they are in opposition to certain principles in God’s Word, and therefore, God cannot answer their prayers until they come in line with His Word (Hagin).[6]

We can tell if a person is alive and breathing by a heartbeat and pulse. The pulse of our relationship with God is obedience. When we totally surrender our will to Him and our hearts pant earnestly for Him, walking in total obedience will become a lifestyle. Others will see that we are alive and doing well in God. Let us live each day desiring to please His Majesty, Jesus, through TOTAL OBEDIENCE.

Questions and Discussion

Does God call for us to be obedient to Him? Luke 11:28; John 8:51; 14:15; 15:10

Ans.: Yes. Blessed are they that hear the word of God and keep it. If you keep His sayings, you will never see death. Keep the commandments, ye will abide in the love of Jesus.

What are some of the attributes of obedience?

Answers may vary.

HUMILITY (we become as servants – A servant doesn’t ask questions or argue about the commands given to him/her). When we become servants, we actually become someone. According to Ephesians 2:6, God Himself lifts us up and seats us with Christ.

BELIEF/FAITH – Hebrews 11:6 states, “But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.”

LOVE/ADMIRATION – John 14:23, “Jesus answered and said to him, ‘If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him.’”

1 John 5:2-3; “By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and keep His commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome.”

In what way were the following individuals in total obedience to God, and what impact did their actions have on them and/or on others?
Noah and the Ark – Genesis 7:5-9; Hebrews 11:7

Ans.: (his family was safe; human race was able to continue)

Abraham/Sarah – Hebrews 11:8-10; Romans 4:20-22

Ans.: How it affected him/others? His seed was blest; his belief was imputed unto him for righteousness.

Jesus Christ – Philippians 2:5-9; Matthew 26:39

Ans.: (how it affected others, access to God and to eternal life) One man’s disobedience brought death, one man’s obedience brought life.

What are some of the attributes of disobedience?

Ans.:

FEAR (God has not given us a spirit of fear…) Genesis 3:8-10
SELFISH/PERSONAL DESIRES/AGENDAS
UNBELIEF Hebrews 3:15-19 (disobedience of the Israelites is said to be the evidence of their unbelief)
John 8:24; “Therefore I said to you that you will die in your sins; for if you do not believe that I am He, you will die in your sins.”
LACK OF LOVE FOR GOD John 14:15, “If you love Me, keep My commandments.”
PRIDE Proverbs 16:18 “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.”
- 1 Peter 5:5 “Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility for ‘God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.’”
- Psalm 138:6 “Though the Lord is on high, yet He regards the lowly; but the proud He knows from afar.” (Only through God’s Word can man bring his mind under subjection to the Lordship of Jesus Christ.) The natural man [the man on the outside] does not want to come in line with the Word of God; nor to any discipline, for that matter. The natural man likes to do just as he pleases, without having to answer to anyone.

The following are examples of individuals who were not in total obedience to God: Let us see how their actions adversely affected them and/or others:

v Saul and the Amalekites 1 Samuel 15:1-3, 9, 12-15, 19-21

Ans.: To get the full impact of this story, we need to understand the real nature of Saul’s disobedience and realize exactly how Saul sinned.

HISTORICAL PERSPECTIVE:

After Saul had gone out to battle, he had done what the law normally required of him. When Israel won a battle, they were required to bring back sacrifices to offer to God for the victory. We might call this “a thanksgiving offering.” At any other time, King Saul would have been acting correctly according to the law’s demands. Also, in battles of that day, the victor was entitled to the spoils of war: all the cattle, horses, chariots, and gold. The conquering army could rightfully take everything that could be salvaged. Furthermore, it was customary for the conquering king to take the enemy king alive and parade him in triumph through the streets of the major cities. This was considered one of the greatest tokens of prestige for a conquering king; it gave him great credibility, not just among his own people, but in the sight of other nations as well.

Expound on the two lies Saul told; verses 12-15, 19-21.

God had commanded Saul to bring nothing back!

Why did the Lord regret making Saul king of Israel? 1 Samuel 15:10-11

Ans.: He turned back from following the Lord and did not obey His commands (in total).

What were the consequences of Saul’s disobedience? 1 Samuel 15:23, 26

Ans.: He was rejected from being king (no inheritance).

v David, Uzzah and the Ark of God – 1 Chronicles 13:1-10

In what way did disobedience play a factor in the death of Uzzah? 1 Chronicles 13:1-10; Exodus 25:10-15; Numbers 4:15

Ans.: Instructions were given by God as how to carry the ark of God. It was to be carried by the Levites with poles through ringlets, etc. The sons of Kohath could not touch the holy things. These instructions were not followed. The ark was placed on a cart towed by oxen, which made it unstable.

v Achan and the Babylonian garment and money – Joshua 6:17-18; 7:1, 19-25

How did Achan’s actions affect Israel? Joshua 7:1-5, 10-12

Ans.: Not only could they not face their enemies; they lost men in the war. The previous chapter speaks of their triumphant victory of the people of Jericho (who were giants) living in a secured city. According to verse 27 of the 6th chapter, “So the Lord was with Joshua, and his fame spread throughout all the country.”

How should we confront and correct disobedience? Jeremiah 3:12-14

Ans.: Acknowledge the wrong, run to the Lord, and repent. “‘Return, backsliding Israel,’ says the Lord… ‘For I am merciful… Only acknowledge your iniquity, that you have transgressed against the Lord your God… and you have not obeyed My voice… Return, O backsliding children,’ says the Lord…”

Can we find success in obeying God’s Word? Joshua 1:8; Isaiah 1:19; Luke 6:38; Psalm 119:1-8

Ans.: Yes. Thou shalt have good success. If you are willing and obey, you will eat the good of the land. If you refuse and rebel, you will be devoured.

Lesson 6 – Sanctification: God’s Honor Code

Scripture Text: 1 Peter 1

Memory Text: But as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, because it is written, “Be holy, for I am holy.” 1 Peter 1:15-16

Lesson Aim: To understand that sanctification is the vital foundation of one’s walk with the Lord and is pivotal in building an ongoing relationship with Christ Jesus and others.

Key Points: Sanctification is ongoing. There is liberty in sanctification. Sanctification is the hinge that holds the door of our relationship with Christ Jesus in place.

Institutions of higher learning have long held on to certain codes of ethics and conduct. Academic communities establish honor systems by which everyone attending the school is to govern them self. They expect all members of the academic community, students, and faculty, to strive for excellence in scholarship and in character. Violation of the honor code can lead to disciplinary actions and/or removal from the school. In essence, they expect everyone to represent the ideals of the school in an upstanding manner.

The Body of Christ is no different. God has set high and reachable standards by which every believer ought to govern him or herself. These standards are set into place to keep us pure, holy, and available for God’s service. God’s honor code, sanctification, is key in maintaining integrity and character both with Christ and His church. “My spirit, soul, and body, Jesus, I give to Thee; a consecrated offering, Thine evermore to be. Now Lord, I yield my members from sin’s dominion free, for warfare and for triumph as weapons unto Thee. I’m Thine, O blessed Jesus, washed in Thy precious blood. Sealed by Thy Holy Spirit, a sacrifice to God.”[7]The words of this hymn epitomize the ongoing relationship one should strive to maintain through sanctification.

God’s honor code is not a list of rules; rather it is a philosophy of conduct through honesty, integrity and understanding. There is liberty in sanctification. Christ is free to come and dine with us at any time because we create the free flow of the Holy Spirit in our lives. We also can come boldly (freely without hindrances) before the throne of God to ask petition of Him there, and to obtain help in time of trouble. The honor code also allows members of the body of Christ to live together, interact and learn more from one another in ways that help to promote the ideals of Christ.

Sanctification should govern our lifestyle. 1 Peter 1:15-16 says, “But as He who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, because it is written, ‘Be holy, for I am holy.’” The word “conduct” here means lifestyle. Everything we say, think, and do should be governed by God’s honor code. Sanctification rests on the assumption that individual integrity is fundamental to each member of the body of Christ. How we choose to live our lives has a direct impact on the growth and maturation of the family, the church, and the community.

Questions and Discussion

Let us look at the Old Testament and New Testament definition of sanctification.

Qadash (Hebrew – Strong’s Concordance #6942) – “to be clean (ceremonially or morally); – appoint, bid, consecrate, dedicate, defile, hallow, (be, keep) holy…prepare, proclaim, purify, sanctify…”[8]

Hagiasmos (Greek – Strong’s Concordance #38) – “prop. purification, i.e., (the state) purify; concr. (by Hebr.) a purifier; – holiness, sanctification.”[9]

How do they differ?

Ans.: The Old Testament uses the term most often to describe things and times (vessels, temple, Sabbath, various festivals). The New Testament uses the term to denote persons; stresses the personal dimension of holiness. Such holiness calls for separation and being wholly dedicated to God both in spirit, soul, and body.

What are the three stages of sanctification?
1 Corinthians 6:11; Ephesians 2:1-6

Ans.: The believer’s experience when he/she received Christ as personal Savior (past).

1 Peter 2:5, 9-10; Hebrews 6:1

Ans.: The believer’s present state of growth. The believer is being built up as a spiritual house to offer sacrifices that please God; and showing forth the praise of Jesus who delivers from sin and makes the believer beautiful in His marvelous light. The believer is also growing and becoming mature in the things of God.

Ephesians 5:27; 1 Thessalonians 5:23; Philippians 3:20-21

Ans.: The ultimate sanctification of believers (future). We will be perfected in Him. This is the goal of our salvation, the ultimate purpose of redemption. When we meet the Lord, we shall be like Him—sinless. The bride will be totally sanctified and ready for the wedding. “Beloved, now we are children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is” (1 John 3:2).

Note: Sanctification is a past experience at the time of our new birth and a present progressive work in us now as we await the ultimate consummation of our dedication to the Lord. Therefore, sanctification is ongoing, is progressive… A change is taking place—becoming more like Christ.

What is the source of sanctification and how is it applied?
Jude 1:1; 1 Thessalonians 5:23

Ans.: It is of God. He makes us holy in soul, body, and spirit.

Hebrews 10:10, 14; 1 Corinthians 6:11

Ans.: It is of Christ. He offered Himself as the supreme sacrifice. His death brought sanctification through His blood. We obtain forgiveness as a result and are restored to right standing in Christ.

2 Thessalonians 2:13; John 16:13

Ans.: It is of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is active in the believer and is the active cause of sanctification. The Holy Spirit guides the believer into “all” truth which includes truths about him/herself—ways the believer can improve, etc.

John 17:17; 15:3; 2 Timothy 3:16; Ephesians 5:26

Ans.: It is by the Word of God. John 15:3 in the Jewish Bible reads, “clean through the word” as “you are pruned.” The word of God corrects, heals, and brings life. It is interesting to note that all four sources stem from one source – God.

Why is sanctification an important aspect of a believer’s walk with the Lord? Hebrews 12:14 and Psalms 15

Ans.: Without holiness, the believer cannot see the Lord. This “see the Lord” is often referred to the coming of Christ. But it is applicable to one’s everyday walk. Without holiness (sanctification) one cannot have sweet communion with the Lord; cannot see His glory in the midst of adversity; cannot experience His presence in 24/7 worship; one cannot ascend to the hill of the Lord. Access to His majesty is hindered and/or forbidden.

What are some of the evidences of sanctification?
Romans 12:1-2; James 4:7; 1 Peter 1:14-16

Ans.: Separation from sin, submission, obedience to God, and living holy.

Matthew 5:48; John 17:23

Ans.: Maturity in Christ (the Greek interpretation of “perfect” is complete, growth, mental and moral character, of full age…)

Galatians 5:22-23; John 15:16

Ans.: Manifest the Fruit of the Spirit

1 Peter 1:22; Colossians 3:13; 1 Thessalonians 3:12-13; Hebrews 12:14-15

Ans.: Maintain loving, forgiving relationship with others.

Why is sanctification vital to the progress of the individual and the church? Psalm 1:3; John 15:7

Ans.: When the believer lives a life of sanctification, he/she becomes more rooted, abides in Christ and brings forth fruit. The Church and the individual are edified, and anything the believer asks God for is granted.

Lesson 7 – Sowing and Reaping

Scripture Text: Galatians 6:6-10

Memory Verse: But this I say: He who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. 2 Corinthians 9:6

Lesson Aim: To emphasize the importance of understanding the principle of sowing and reaping and to encourage a lifestyle of generous giving.

Key Points: We need to gain a good grasp of the principle of sowing and reaping (giving and receiving) because this principle affects every aspect of our lives. We must expect that God will do what He says and what He has promised in His Word. If we sow sparingly, we will reap sparingly. If we sow bountifully, we will reap bountifully.

In one of the previous lessons, we discussed stewardship and we noted that good stewardship requires a gracious move of God. We need to know and understand God’s will, then co-labor with God by exercising our faith. Once we understand our role as God’s stewards, we need to gain a good grasp of the principle of sowing and reaping because this principle also affects every aspect of our lives. This principle has been in place since Genesis when God declared, “While the earth remains, seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, winter and summer, and day and night shall not cease” Genesis 8:22. All truth is parallel. It applies in the natural as well as the spiritual.

Many times we are quick to point out, “You reap just what you sow” in the negative context, but we tend to be timid and unbelieving when asked to apply the same principle in the positive context. Somehow it seems easier to believe in negative outcomes than for positive results. Because of our adamic nature, negative results occur quite naturally without much conscious effort. However, the same way that negative seeds produce negative results, positive seeds bring forth a positive harvest. Nonetheless, we must exercise our faith and co-labor with God to reap the positive.

God gets great pleasure out of our believing His Word and our expecting of Him. After all, without faith it is impossible to please Him. If we come to Him, we must believe that He is a rewarder of them that diligently seek Him. He wants us to come to Him, but we must expect that God will do what He says and what He has promised in His Word. Although giving and receiving extends beyond just our finances, when we talk about money we quickly get the attention of most people.

God gave Israel principles and promises under the Old Covenant that ensured their success if they were obedient. There was a whole set of laws that governed giving: tithing, freewill offerings, sacrificial offerings, etc. These concepts had to be hammered into them because man’s basic nature is not to give. He would rather receive and hoard. However, as new creatures in Christ, we take on the image of Christ, the Master Giver, and our nature is being transformed. This can happen only if we allow the principles of the Kingdom to be written in our hearts. The blessings come when we are doers of the Word and not hearers only.

We must understand that we should give to God expecting to receive from Him. We have to change our thinking to recognize that giving is also an act of worship. Just as we offer our bodies as living sacrifices, we should offer our possessions, our resources, and our skills, likewise, realizing that all we do should be to glorify God and build His Kingdom. We must be conscious to give our best and all that God asks. Then we should expect to receive all that He gives, keeping in mind that we will receive in accordance with what we give.

Questions and Discussion

What is the one continuing law throughout the Bible that tells us how to receive? Genesis 8:22; Obadiah 1:15; Matthew 7:12; Galatians 6:7-8; Ephesians 6:8

Ans.: The law of sowing and reaping. It works beyond just agriculture. It is life. As you do to others, will be done to you. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Be not deceived, God is not mocked, whatsoever a man soweth that shall he also reap. Knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doeth, the same shall he receive of the Lord …

What can we learn from these Old Testament examples of giving? Genesis 14:18-20; Exodus 35:4-9, 20-22; 36:6-7; Leviticus 19:9-10; 1 Kings 17:13-16

Ans.: Abram gave tithes of all that he had. The people gave the freewill offering for the tabernacle from their hearts. They gave so much that they had to be restrained from giving. When reaping they were to leave something for the gleaners; the widow of Zarephath, listened to the prophet, was obedient in giving and experienced continual supply through the famine.

Is there any relationship between how much you give and what you receive? 2 Corinthians 9:6-8; Luke 6:38; Malachi 3:10; Luke 21:1-4 Discuss.

Ans.: Sow sparingly, reap sparingly; sow bountifully, reap bountifully. Give and it shall be given unto you pressed down, shaken together, running over…. Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse that there may be meat in my house… there shall not be room enough to receive it. Widow’s mite. God really looks at what you have left after you give (the % vs. the actual value). He honors sacrificial giving.

How can we maximize the principle of sowing and reaping? Haggai 1:6-7; Acts 20:35; Galatians 6:9; 1 Corinthians 13:3; 2 Corinthians 9:6-7

Ans.: Consider your ways. Recognize the blessing in giving. Do not faint/stop – sow continuously. Give in love. Sow generously, sow with purpose and sow cheerfully. Understand that it is a gracious move of God, give and expect to receive from God. Recognize your harvests and be thankful for them.

Lesson 8 – Foundations of a Godly Marriage

Scripture Text: Ephesians 5:22-33

Memory Verse: He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord. Proverbs 18:22

Lesson Aim: To consider the purposes of marriage and essential factors that will enable people to live a “different” marriage.

Key Points: God designed marriage and He made it good. The marriage relationship is only surpassed in importance by one’s relationship with God. The marital union is designed to develop us into the image of Christ and to be an earthly example of oneness. God must be at the center of whatever method you use to find a mate.

The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language 4^th Edition defines marriage as “the legal union of a man and woman as husband and wife.”[10] Marriage is God’s idea. It is sacred. God designed it and ordained it in the Garden of Eden. He made it good. In the same way that Adam had a perfect body, a perfect mind, incredible living quarters, etc., he had a perfect marriage, until….

God intended for marriage to be a blessing, not a curse. It is not His will for your marriage to be the peak of pain, frustration, and disappointment in your life. Instead, His desire is that you would prosper and be in health. A successful marriage is part of the prospering. However, your marriage will only be what you make it.

The marriage relationship is only surpassed in importance by one’s relationship with God. Our relationship with God is for eternity and the parenting relationship only lasts for a generation. The marriage relationship is in the middle. It is a covenant relationship and is intended to be successful and last a lifetime.

God had several things in mind when He established marriage. He realized that Adam was alone, and that was not good. Through the marital union, God addressed Adam’s need for companionship and help. Eve was a help suitable for him. Adam was dependent on her for them to fulfill God’s command to be fruitful and multiply. God expected them to create a godly legacy and God knew Adam could not do that by himself. Ultimately, God wants to see His reflection on the earth. Adam and Eve were made in God’s image. By its very nature, the marital union is designed to develop us into the image of Christ and to be an earthly example of oneness. In that context, marriage represents the relationship of Christ and His bride, the Church.

We must understand the importance of getting a proper start. Even though there are many ways to find one’s spouse, God should be at the center of whatever method used. God knows your need better than you do. When you ask, be sure that you do not ask amiss because it is most important that you be in God’s will. We can look at some Biblical examples and learn from them.

With all the resources and tools available to us, there should be no excuse for bad marriages in the church today. However, we know the facts. In this lesson and the one that follows we will consider some important ingredients to laying a foundation for a successful marriage that will glorify God.

Questions and Discussion

What are the three dominant purposes for marriage? Genesis 2:18; 1 Corinthians 11:11; Genesis 1:26-28; Ephesians 5:23-25, 32

Ans.: Help suitable for Adam (man), companionship; multiply a Godly legacy; reflect the image of God, relationship of Christ and the Church. Stewardship is involved here, too.

What approaches can one take in finding a mate? Consider the following examples in the Bible. Genesis 24 (Isaac); Genesis 28 (Jacob); Judges 14-16 (Samson); Ruth 4 (Boaz); Hosea 1:2-3 Discuss.

Ans.: The father sent the servant to find a wife for his son; Jacob followed his father’s advice. Samson followed his lust. Boaz bought his wife (he redeemed her). Hosea heard from the Lord and obeyed him.

Based on Ephesians 5:23, 25-30, identify three responsibilities of the husband.

Ans.: (1) lead the family; (2) love his wife as Christ loved the church; (3) care for (nourish and cherish). What does it mean to nourish and cherish? Ans.: Nourish means to promote the growth of; cherish means to hold dear/feel or show affection for.

Based on the following Scriptures, identify four responsibilities of the wife. Proverbs 31:27; Ephesians 5:22, 33b; Titus 2:4

Ans.: (1) make her family a priority; (2) submit to her husband; (3) respect her husband; (4) love her husband and children.

Discuss how a couple can successfully fulfill the responsibilities identified in Questions 3 and 4 above and some of the challenges to fulfilling these responsibilities.

Ans.: Use material like that found on FamilyLife.com as a guide to identify societal vs. Biblical approaches to roles and responsibilities. We cannot expect to use worldly methods to get Godly results.

Lesson 9 – Maintaining a Godly Marriage

Scripture Text: Matthew 19:4-6

Memory Verse: Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. Genesis 2:24

Lesson Aim: To reinforce the foundational elements necessary to sustain a godly marriage.

Key Points: The concepts of receiving, leaving, and cleaving are vital to the success of a marriage. Our responsibility is to submit to God and each other in every aspect of the marital relationship.

In the previous lesson we were reminded that marriage was good – God made it that way. Despite the world’s negative opinion about marriage, it is here to stay. It is one thing to know the reasons and purposes for marriage, but how do we make them a reality in our lives? Our goal should be to make it everything that God intended for it to be.

However, with practically half the marriages in the United States ending in divorce, our society has basically abandoned the sanctity of marriage. Unfortunately, the marital success rate of professing Christians is not much better. Even in the Church of God, the number of poor marriages and broken homes is alarming. Perhaps it is the result of ignorance, or perhaps it is due to laziness and disobedience. Regardless, God is calling us to live differently. We are to be an example to the world, not of the world.

In Genesis 2:24, God established a simple footprint for a successful marriage. Even though the details vary with every relationship, the concepts of receiving one’s mate, leaving one’s parents, and cleaving to one’s spouse are vital to a successful marriage. These three concepts need to be valued and practiced throughout a lifetime.

When Eve was presented to Adam, he accepted her just as she was. He knew God was giving her to him and he had the utmost trust and confidence that God was giving him what was best for him. It was not until after sin entered into the picture that we see Adam having problems accepting Eve. Whereas affirmation and appreciation were the norm, now the very opposite (blame and fault finding) have become standard human behavior.

Another critical factor in living a successful marriage is to leave one’s parents. That means leaving them physically, emotionally, financially. It does not mean that you have to go clear across the country or to another continent, but you leave from under their authority, their protection and their influence as you establish your own family under God.

Cleaving is difficult if you do not leave. Although physically cleaving is very important in a marriage, that is not all cleaving entails. In order to have a successful marriage, the husband and wife also need to cleave to each other emotionally and spiritually. It is in this bonding process that God’s purposes of developing and growing us takes place. It is in the cleaving process that we must co-labor with God to achieve oneness. What God put together, let no man (not even yourself) put asunder.

Although the pressures of modern society have tried to alter roles and responsibilities in marriage, it is important that we continue to acknowledge and follow God’s blueprint for marriage. Ephesians 5:22-30 summarizes it well. Husbands still need to be servant-leaders, love their wives and care for them. Wives still need to love their husbands, submit to them, and respect them.

It is important that we submit ourselves to God and each other in every aspect of the marital relationship. I challenge you to pursue God’s will together. Depend on the Holy Spirit to lead you and direct you. Pray for and with your spouse, and actively apply the Word of God to your marriage so that you, too, can enjoy the blessings of a “different” marriage.

Questions and Discussion

What critical elements are necessary to maintain a successful marriage? Psalm 127:1; Genesis 2:21-23; Ephesians 5:24-25; 1 Peter 3:7

Ans.: God in the center; following God’s blueprint for marriage; acceptance of your mate (God’s provision); love; submission & respect; knowledge/wisdom.

Discuss the varied aspects of receiving, leaving, and cleaving? Genesis 2:23-24; Matthew 19:5-6

Ans.: Unconditional love and acceptance of God’s gift, affirmation, applying the languages of love, building your mate’s self-esteem are all part of receiving your mate. Leaving involves establishing and maintaining independence from parents. Discuss challenges some people have in doing so, i.e., physically, emotionally, financially. Cleaving involves emotional, relational interdependency (companionship) as well as the one-flesh experience, i.e., sex.

How does vertical alignment impact the marriage relationship? 1 Corinthians 11:3 In what ways have changes in society impacted the structure and effectiveness of marriages today?

Ans.: Order is the correct arrangement of things. Improper alignment creates problems. In terms of leadership, 1 Corinthians 11:3 establishes Christ as the head of the husband and the husband as the head of the wife. Children and church and others come after. Society tries to ignore this alignment, resulting in the current chaos and misalignment and misplaced roles and family functions. Let the Word of God be your marriage chiropractor.

Discuss what we can do to experience marriage as the blessing God intended for it to be. Ephesians 5:28-31, 33; Titus 2:4-5; Philippians 2:3-4; Ephesians 5:18

Ans.: Cherish your spouse, live in wisdom; speak the languages of love; know your spouse; acceptance, unconditional love; honor & respect; obedience. It may be useful to continue the discussion and/or put in some practical application here!

Lesson 10 – Parenting – The Highest Level of Stewardship

Scripture Text: Deuteronomy 6:1-9

Memory Verse: And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord. Ephesians 6:4

Lesson Aim: To highlight the ultimate responsibility of parenting and examine how it relates to how God parents us.

Key Points: The primary responsibility of parents is to nurture, discipline, and admonish their children in the Word of God. A parent can only be as effective as God desires if he/she is first yielded to the authority of Christ. No one can influence a child’s destiny like the child’s parents.

It is interesting to note that while parenting is one of the most challenging and most important tasks one can assume, no particular credentials are required and often no competency training is provided prior to assuming the role. The responsibilities of parenting are great, but at a minimum, parents have the mammoth task of raising their children to be responsible, productive, and morally upright citizens.

“God has delivered our children’s bodies, souls, thoughts, lives, and futures into our hands. No person can influence another’s destiny more than parents can their children’s.”[11] God has committed parents to their children as divine stewardship, and He will demand an account from parents of how they cared for their children whom He has entrusted to them.

To execute parenting, as God would have it to be, parents should seek to counteract one of the biggest threats to Godliness, which is rebellion. Rebellion is a major factor, which is influencing, and in many cases, corrupting our children. It is the responsibility of parents to not only know and respect the authority of God, but to infuse this same characteristic into their children. Rebellion is from the beginning and its consequences are great. Satan became Satan because he overstepped God’s authority. He wanted to compete with God and to stand in opposition to God. Rebellion is the cause of the fall of Satan.

In the whole universe, God is the ultimate authority. God appoints all other authorities. Therefore, when parents teach their children to respect them, and other authority figures they are in turn teaching them to respect the authority of God. Rebellion can best be displaced when parents, as children of the Lord, learn and model submission to authority. By so doing, children will learn to know and obey authority, realizing that all authority has its source in God (Romans 13:1-7).

Parental guidance is essential for the development of human virtues. Children must be raised according to the standards of culture. The more children are trained according to culture, the better it will be for them. Children must be trained to honor their parents, to love their siblings, to behave properly toward their neighbors, to be good students in school, to obey all laws, and to respect their teachers and other adults. However, more importantly, the primary responsibility of parents is to raise children who become God-fearing disciples of Christ.

Parents must remain absolutely dependent upon the sovereignty of God for their children’s spiritual well-being. They must exercise the utmost care, shepherding them with much cherishing and nurturing, and a rich model for Jesus Christ. When parents consider the responsibility of raising children, they must always keep a sharp awareness of the charge to nurture their children in the discipline and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). Parents should not rely on the latest trends in the world of pop psychology to determine how their children should be trained, disciplined, or given their rights as human beings. The Bible should be the standard that governs how parents care for their children whom God has committed into their hands. Therefore, parents must first be those who are faithful to read the Word and pray diligently on a daily basis.

Questions and Discussion

What specific actions are parents advised to take in raising their children? Ephesians 6:4

Ans.: We are not to provoke our children to wrath but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.

Define and discuss the following terms…
- Nurture – Ans.: training, giving direction, caring.
- Discipline – Ans.: training that develops self-control, character or orderliness and efficiency; treatment that corrects or punishes.
- Admonish – Ans.: to advise, counsel and caution, rebuke.
Ephesians 6:4 tells us that parents should discipline their children. Does our heavenly Father discipline us and if so, how? Proverbs 3:11-12; Amos 3:2; Hebrews 12:7-8

Ans.: Yes, He does. Do not despise the chastening of the Lord. He punishes and chastens us.

What is the purpose of God disciplining us? Hebrews 12:4-11; 1 Peter 1:16; Ephesians 5:27

Ans.: Whom the Lord loves, He chastens. It is for our profit, that we might be partakers of His holiness and the peaceable fruit of righteousness. So that we will be holy and without blemish.

Considering the means by which and the purpose of God disciplining us, how does that parallel with earthly parents’ discipline of their children?

Ans.: It’s the same reason and for the same cause, to yield the peaceable fruit of righteousness. God wants the best for us, just like any good parent wants the best for their children. Discipline, whether training or correction, is for the purpose of improvement, betterment, development, and growth. Discipline provides an opportunity to learn.

What are some things that parents can do to accomplish the goal of parenting as God sees it? Deuteronomy 6:6-9; Proverbs 13:24; 23:13-14

Ans.: We should diligently teach our children the commands of the Lord, seize the available opportunities: in the house, by the way, rising up, and laying down. Talk with them. Don’t spare the rod. Correct them.

Lesson 11 – Living in Divine Health

Scripture Text: Exodus 15:22-27; Deuteronomy 7:6-15

Memory Verse: Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers. 3 John 1:2

Lesson Aim: To define and show the origin of divine health and how to live in and maintain divine health.

Key Points: Divine health is God-given health. Sickness and death did not exist prior to Adam’s sin. To live in divine health requires obedience to biblical dietary laws. Healing is the process of returning to divine health. Spiritual and natural healing are ordained of God and work together.

Divine health is God-given health. Divine health is part of God’s plan for mankind. God formed Adam of the dust of the earth. Adam was a healthy soul – a perfect product of God’s creative ability. There is no record of physical or mental illness prior to the time Adam chose to disobey God’s ordinance not to eat of the tree of knowledge of good and evil in the midst of the Garden of Eden. Because of Adam’s disobedience, sickness and disease entered the world, afflicted the human race, and have become rampant in the earth.

Divine health may be further defined as that physical and spiritual state Adam experienced prior to sinning. That state was one in which Adam was flawless and free from pain and illness. He was sound in mind, body, and spirit.

When considering the subject of divine health in a sinful world, we must also consider healing. Healing is the process of returning to divine health. It is necessary to understand that healing takes place in two realms, the natural and the spiritual (divine). The two are ordained of God and work together. In the natural realm, a number of things contribute to the maintenance of health and healing. They are exercise, good nutrition (Genesis l:29), proper rest (Exodus 20:10), and good care of one’s physical body (2 Corinthians 7:1). God expects us to care for our bodies with which He has blessed us and not neglect or abuse them in any way (1 Corinthians 6:18-20).

When we have done the best we can do and still get sick, then we need divine intervention. Entering the divine realm requires faith. It is here that we stand on the promises of God. Miracles begin where our abilities cease. The Holy Bible has many examples where people who were experiencing ill health reached out by faith and were restored to divine health being made whole by the healing power of God (Mark 5:25-29, 33-34; Luke 5:12-14; 6:17-19).

God wants us to have divine health (3 John 1:2). To live or walk in divine health we must be obedient to biblical principles designed by God to keep us healthy. What would happen to an automobile if the oil was not changed regularly or if water was put into the gas tank? What if you never serviced it, failed to put air in the tires or replace the air filter? Instead, you just drove, drove, and drove it. What do you think would be the life span of that car?

Well, do you know that many people are doing the same thing to their bodies. We are filling our stomachs with junk food and drinks and wondering why we don’t feel well. We are caught up in a fast-paced life and fast-food style. God has power to heal, but He desires that His people live healthy lives by obeying the principles of good health.

The Apostle Paul summed it up very well when he wrote in Romans 12:1-2, “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect, will of God.” Keep in mind we are the temple of the Holy Ghost. Therefore, let us glorify God in our bodies and in our spirits. Take care of your wonderfully made body.

Questions and Discussion

What marvelous benefits did Adam and Eve enjoy prior to sinning? Genesis 1:26-29

Ans.: Access to all of earth’s treasures; total dominion over all other living creatures on earth, freedom from physical weakness, pain and disease.

Under the Old Covenant how extensive were God’s promises to the Israelites for obedience to His laws and statutes? Exodus 15:26; Deuteronomy 7:15; 28:1-14

Ans.: They would be blessed above all nations in family, spiritual, and earthly affairs.

For what reasons did God restrict the Israelites in their diet? Leviticus 11:44-47; 20:24-26; Deuteronomy 14:1-3

Ans.: God wanted them to be a separated holy people and an example to all the nations.

Under the New Covenant what has God made available to believers through Jesus Christ? John 10:10; Hebrews 8:6; 2 Peter 1:2-3

Ans.: Abundant life, better promises, all things that pertain to life and godliness.

What wonderful promises are foretold for the inhabitants of the world of tomorrow? Revelation 21:1-6

Ans.: No sickness, no pain, no sorrow, no death, no crying, etc.

Lesson 12 – The Example of the Believer

Scripture Text: 1 Timothy 4:12-16

Memory Verse: “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:16

Lesson Aim: To identify how we can be an example of a believer and how our example can impact the lives of unbelievers.

Key Points: Christ is our primary example. As examples of a believer, we continue the work of Christ here on earth. As professing Christians, we have an immediate opportunity to impact the lives of unbelievers because their eyes are always upon us.

Jesus, our Lord, Savior, and Redeemer left His home in glory, stepped out of divinity and into the form of sinful man to provide us with the perfect example. He bore our sins in His body on the cross, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness, for by His wounds we are healed. Christ suffered for us, leaving us an example to follow in His steps. He committed no sin; no deceit was found in His mouth; and as He was reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting Himself to Him who judges righteously. He is our model of goodness, kindness, compassion, concern, care, tenderness, forgiveness, wisdom, understanding, humility, and trust in God.

Christ fulfilled the mission of His work here on earth. He had great impact while on earth, and though it is now decades later, His impact must not dissipate. As the sovereign God, He has the ability and the right to pull us out of this world the moment we are saved, but we are kept here to carry on the work of Christ. God wants us to be examples to the rest of the world. Our demeanor should reflect our beliefs, faith, and transformed lives. God could use anything as a witnessing tool, but He wants to use us. Someone witnessed to us, and we should, in turn, witness to others around us – family, friends, coworkers, classmates, or people we meet on the streets.

Even when we think otherwise, we are being watched, or observed closely by unbelievers to see if our deeds correlate with our testimony. Jesus, in the Sermon on the Mount, said to do just that: “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father which is in heaven” (Matthew 5:16). Therefore, in following Jesus’ words, we are to be an example to unbelievers.

Even within the Church, we are to be an example, and also look up to others as an example. A formal context in which one could be an example is that of a disciple-discipler relationship. Young converts and weaker, less mature saints need good examples. Apostle Paul admonished the Philippian brethren to mark those who follow Christ (Philippians 3:17-18). Jesus provides the model here: of the thousands whom he spoke to, he chose twelve to be disciples, and from those twelve, he chose to be even closer to a selected three (Peter, James and John). But apart from such formal exampleship, all of us are being watched, and also watching others. Therefore, we should all consider ourselves as having an impact on someone’s life and others having an impact on ours.

God wants all believers to walk according to His Word and to be an example to others. Timothy was a young believer who was also a leader of God’s people. The Apostle Paul wrote God’s Word to him about how he should walk as an example of a believer, and we should strive to do the same.

Questions and Discussion

Define the term example.

Ans.: Something or someone to be imitated; a standard, pattern, model, or precedent.

Identify some means by which examples can be given.

Answers will vary, but could be, as parents/grandparents:

What we say
What we do
How we dress
All aspects of our demeanor
God wants us to be examples of how to be believers. 1 Timothy 4:12 lists six areas in which a person can walk as an example of a believer. What are they?

Word
Conversation
Charity
Spirit
Faith
Purity

According to the following scriptures, identify the areas in which we should be an example of a believer.

John 13:4-5, 12-15 Ans.: Being a servant, a helper.

1 Thessalonians 2:13 Ans.: Receiving the Word, studying and knowing it.

John 17:14-17 Ans.: Being examples of the Word. Being not of the world but sanctified through the Word.

1 Thessalonians 1:6-8 Ans.: Receiving the Word in affliction, joy of the Holy Ghost. Faith that is spread abroad.

1 John 3:2-3 Ans.: Purifying oneself.

2 Timothy 2:15 Ans.: Studying the Word.

Ephesians 4:22-32 Ans.: Put off the old corrupt behavior, be renewed in the spirit of your mind, put away lying, speak truth, be angry and sin not, don’t give place to the devil, stop stealing, talk clean, speak good to edify, don’t grieve the Holy Spirit, put away bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, evil speaking, and malice. Be kind, tenderhearted and forgiving to one another.

How can knowing God make us an example of a believer? 2 Peter 1:3

Ans.: God has given us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him that hath called us to glory and virtue. We get that knowledge through the Word.

How can our conversation (behavior) be an example of a believer? Romans 12:14, 17-18

Ans.: Bless those that persecute you. Bless and curse not. Don’t repay evil for evil. Be honest in the sight of all. To the extent possible, live peaceably with everybody.

How can we be an example of a believer in charity? Matthew 5:44; Romans 12:19-20

Ans.: Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you and pray for those the abuse you and persecute you.

How can we be an example of a believer in faith? Philippians 4:6-7

Ans.: Don’t be anxious for anything. Make your requests known unto God by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving. God’s peace will keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Fill in the blanks.

When we believed God’s Word as written in Romans 10:9-10 we became children of God. Now that we are sons of God, we have a responsibility to walk as examples of the believers.

We are examples in word as we read/study and hold forth God’s Word.
We are examples in conversation as we renew our minds and behave according to God’s Word.
We are examples in charity as we love one another out of the love of God in our hearts.
We are examples in faith as we act on God’s Word and receive the results of our believing.
We are examples in purity as we keep our eyes on the nearness of Christ’s return and do not get entangled in the evil of this world.

Food for thought…

Your speech indicates the state of your heart – either the evil that’s in it or grace that dominates it. Jesus’ speech in His time of trial showed a heart filled with the grace of God. He spoke no evil but answered with the truth. Does your speech show the grace of God even when faced with a severe trial?

Lesson 13 – Quarter Review

Scripture Text: Luke 16:1-13

Memory Verse: But you must continue in the things which you have learned and been assured of, knowing from whom you have learned them. 2 Timothy 3:14

Lesson Aim: To review the significant points from the quarter’s lessons.

Key Points: We can be good stewards only by God’s grace. A victorious life can be obtained through faith. Walking in authority is a matter of position, posture, and prepared-ness. When people and things are lined up properly, the Spirit of the Lord can move freely. The pulse of one’s relationship with God is obedience. God designed marriage and He made it good. No one can influence a child’s destiny like the child’s parents. Spiritual and natural healing are ordained of God and work together.

During the past 12 weeks, the lessons have dealt with various aspects of stewardship. Stewardship impacts every area of our lives and good stewardship is a gracious move of God. It requires us to live by faith. As we step out in faith, we are able to recognize and understand the authority we have in Christ. When we submit to and walk in authority, we can properly position ourselves, take on the correct posture, and prepare ourselves for the battle.

We learned that order allows us to know and function in the proper position and proper fit within the Body of Christ, whether family, ministry, or within the fellowship of the saints. Total obedience allows us to stay in position as we continuously walk in submission. Sanctification is pivotal in maintaining an ongoing fellowship with Christ. It is basically, stewardship of one’s self. That includes body, mind, and spirit.

Though not limited to just finances, understanding the principle of sowing and

reaping is vital to our proper stewardship of God’s resources. Stewardship in the family requires us to value the institution of marriage and the gifts that God has given us in our spouses and children. It is clear that God intends for us to leave a Godly legacy.

When we take the opportunity to live in divine health, we will reap the results in this life. As with all aspects of good stewardship, we have to co-labor with God. Ultimately, God wants us to be examples as believers in word, in conversation, in love, in attitude, in faith and in purity. May we accept the challenge of stewardship and walk worthy of the vocation of which we are called.

Questions and Discussion

What is involved in being a good steward? Lesson 1, Question 1

How is faith manifested by the believer? Lesson 2, Question 3

Ans.: By the believer’s works, one’s actions.

Why is it necessary to balance our liberty with order? Lesson 4, Question 5

What are the three stages of sanctification? Lesson 6, Question 2

Ans.: (1) The believer’s experience, when he/she received Christ as personal Savior (past). (2) The believer’s present state of growth. The believer is being built up as a spiritual house to offer sacrifices that please God; and showing forth the praise of Jesus who delivers from sin and makes the believer beautiful in His marvelous light. The believer is also growing and becoming mature in the things of God. (3) The ultimate sanctification of believers (future). We will be perfected in Him. This is the goal of our salvation, the ultimate purpose of redemption. When we meet the Lord, we shall be like Him—sinless. The bride will be totally sanctified and ready for the wedding. 1 John 3:2 “Beloved, now are children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be, but we know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, for we shall see Him as He is.”

How can we maximize the principle of sowing and reaping? Lesson 7, Question 4

What critical elements are necessary to maintain a successful marriage? Lesson 9, Question 1

Ans.: God in the center; following God’s blueprint for marriage; acceptance of your mate (God’s provision); love; submission & respect; knowledge/wisdom.

What are some things that parents can do to accomplish the goal of parenting as God sees it? Lesson 10, Question 6

Under the New Covenant what has God made available to believers through Jesus Christ? Lesson 11, Question 4

Ans.: Abundant life, better promises, all things that pertain to life and godliness.

In what areas of our lives should we be examples of a believer? Lesson 12, Question 4

Ans.: Being a servant, a helper; Receiving the Word, studying and knowing it; Being examples of the Word. Being not of the world but sanctified through the Word; Receiving the Word in affliction, joy of the Holy Ghost. Faith that is spread abroad; Purifying oneself; Studying the Word; Put off the old corrupt behavior, be renewed in the spirit of your mind, put away lying, speak truth, be angry and sin not, don’t give place to the devil, stop stealing, talk clean, speak good to edify, don’t grieve the Holy Spirit, put away bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, evil speaking and malice. Be kind, tenderhearted and forgiving to one another.

[1] Barnhart, Clarence L. The Work Book Dictionary. Chicago: Field Enterprises Educational Corporation, 1972. p. 2035

[2] “Hebrews 11:1.” The Amplified Bible, Expanded Edition. Zondervan Corporation and the Lockman Foundation, 1987.

[3] Agnes, Michael. Webster’s New College Dictionary. Cleveland: Wiley Publishing, Inc., 2007. p. 1014

[4] Hagin, Kenneth, Jr. The Life of Obedience. Tulsa: Rhema Bible Church, 1986. p. 27-28

[5] Vine, W. E. Vine’s Expository Dictionary of Old and New Testament Words. Old Tappan: Fleming H. Revell Company, 1981.p. 124

[6] Hagin, p. 18.

[7] Clay, Richard. Redemtpion Songs. Great Britian: The Chaucer Press, n.d. 154.

[8] Strong, James. The New Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible. Nashville: Thomas Nelson Publishers, 1990. Hebrew, p. 102.

[9] Ibid, Greek, p. 7

[10] Pickett, Joseph P. The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language – 4th Edition. Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 2000. p. 1073

[11] Nee, Watchman. Do All to the Glory of God. Richmond Virginia: Christian Fellowship Publishers, 1980. p. 72.