Ibyanditswe Byera: Gutegeka 6: 1-9
Umurongo wo kwibuka: Namwe, ba so, ntimukarakaze abana banyu, ahubwo mubareze mu mahugurwa no mu nama za Nyagasani. Abefeso 6: 4
Isomo Intego: Kugaragaza inshingano nyamukuru yo kurera no gusuzuma uburyo bifitanye isano nuburyo Imana itubera.
Ingingo z'ingenzi
- Inshingano y'ibanze y'ababyeyi ni ukurera, gutoza indero no guhugura abana babo mu Ijambo ry'Imana
- Umubyeyi ashobora kugira icyo akora nk'uko Imana ibishaka gusa iyo abanje kwemera ubutware bwa Kristo.
- Nta muntu ushobora kugira ingaruka ku mibereho y'umwana nk'uko ababyeyi b'umwana bagira.
Birashimishije kumenya ko mugihe kurera ari kimwe mubikorwa bigoye kandi byingenzi umuntu ashobora gukora, nta byangombwa byihariye bisabwa kandi akenshi nta mahugurwa yubushobozi atangwa mbere yo gutangira inshingano. Inshingano zo kurera ni nini, ariko byibuze, ababyeyi bafite inshingano zikomeye zo kurera abana babo kuba abaturage bashinzwe, batanga umusaruro, kandi bafite imico myiza.
“Imana yatanze imibiri y’abana bacu, ubugingo, ibitekerezo, ubuzima, n’ejo hazaza mu maboko yacu. Nta muntu ushobora kugira ingaruka ku hazaza h’undi kurusha uko ababyeyi babigira ku bana babo.”[1] Imana yahaye ababyeyi babo nk’ubuyobozi bw’Imana, kandi izasaba ababyeyi kubazwa uburyo bitaye ku bana babo yabashinze.
Kugira ngo uburere bushoboke, nkuko Imana yabishaka, ababyeyi bagomba gushaka kurwanya kimwe mubibangamira kubaha Imana, aribyo kwigomeka. Kwigomeka nikintu gikomeye, kigira ingaruka, kandi mubihe byinshi, byonona abana bacu. Ni inshingano z'ababyeyi kutamenya no kubaha ubutware bw'Imana gusa, ahubwo no kwinjiza abana babo ibi biranga. Kwigomeka kuva mu ntangiriro kandi ingaruka zabyo ni nyinshi. Satani yabaye Satani kuko yarenze ubutware bw'Imana. Yashakaga guhangana n'Imana no guhagarara arwanya Imana. Kwigomeka nintandaro yo kugwa kwa Satani.
Mu isanzure ryose, Imana nububasha buhebuje. Imana ishyiraho izindi nzego zose. Kubwibyo, iyo ababyeyi bigisha abana babo kububaha, nabandi bantu bafite ubutware nabo ubwabo babigisha kubaha ubutware bwImana. Kwigomeka kurashobora kwimurwa mugihe ababyeyi, nkabana ba Nyagasani, biga no kugandukira ubuyobozi. Nubikora, abana bazamenya kumenya no kumvira ubutware, bamenye ko ubutware bwose bufite inkomoko mu Mana (Abaroma 13: 1-7).
Ubuyobozi bwababyeyi nibyingenzi mugutezimbere imico myiza yabantu. Abana bagomba kurerwa bakurikije amahame yumuco. Uko abana batozwa bakurikije umuco, bizababera byiza. Abana bagomba gutozwa kubaha ababyeyi, gukunda barumuna babo, kwitwara neza kubaturanyi babo, kuba abanyeshuri beza mwishuri, kubahiriza amategeko yose, no kubaha abarimu babo nabandi bantu bakuru. Ariko, icy'ingenzi, inshingano y'ibanze y'ababyeyi ni ukurera abana bahinduka abigishwa bubaha Imana ba Kristo.
Ababyeyi bagomba gukomeza gushingira ku busugire bw'Imana kugirango abana babo bamererwe neza mu mwuka. Bagomba kwitondera cyane, kubashumba bakunda cyane kandi barera, nicyitegererezo cyiza kuri Yesu Kristo. Iyo ababyeyi batekereje ku nshingano zo kurera abana, bagomba guhora bamenye neza inshingano yo kurera abana babo mu gihano no gukangurira Umwami (Abefeso 6: 4). Ababyeyi ntibagomba gushingira ku bigezweho bigezweho ku isi ya psychologiya ya pop kugirango bamenye uburyo abana babo bagomba gutozwa, guhanwa, cyangwa guhabwa uburenganzira bwabo nkabantu. Bibiliya igomba kuba ihame rigenga uburyo ababyeyi bita kubana babo Imana yahaye mumaboko yabo. Kubwibyo, ababyeyi bagomba kubanza kuba abizerwa gusoma Ijambo no gusenga bashishikaye burimunsi.
[1] Nee, Umuzamu. Kora Byose kubwicyubahiro cyImana. Richmond Virginia: Abakristu basangirangendo b'Abakristo, 1980 p. 72.
Ibibazo n'ibiganiro
- Ni ibihe bikorwa byihariye ababyeyi basabwa gukora mu kurera abana babo? Abefeso 6: 4
- Sobanura kandi uganire ku magambo akurikira…
- Kurera -
- Indero -
- Impanuro -
- Abefeso 6: 4 hatubwira ko ababyeyi bagomba guhana abana babo. Data wo mwijuru araduhana kandi niba aribyo, gute? Imigani 3: 11-12; Amosi 3: 2; Abaheburayo 12: 7-8
- Intego y'Imana ni iyihe? Abaheburayo 12: 4-11; 1 Petero 1:16; Abefeso 5:27
- Urebye uburyo n'intego y'Imana iduhana, ibyo bihuriye he no guhana kw'ababyeyi bo ku isi kubana babo?
- Nibihe bintu bimwe ababyeyi bashobora gukora kugirango bagere ku ntego yo kurera nkuko Imana ibibona? Gutegeka kwa kabiri 6: 6-9; Imigani 13:24; 23: 13-14