Umurongo wo Kwibuka: Ukunda umuvandimwe we aguma mu mucyo, kandi nta cyamugusha. 1 Yohana 2:10.
Isomo ry'Ibyanditswe Byera: 1 Abakorinto 13:1-13; Abakolosayi 3:12-17
Intangiriro:
Urukundo ni ryo jambo rikoreshwa cyane kandi rikoreshwa nabi mu rurimi rw'Icyongereza. Dukunda gukina baseball, dukunda kujya kureba filime, dukunda ice cream cyangwa keke, umugabo abwira umugore abigiranye isoni ko amukunda. Mu by'ukuri, amagambo asobanura ikintu gitandukanye cyane n'icyo dushaka kuvuga, kandi umukino w'imitima y'abantu ushobora kuba siporo mbi cyane. Indirimbo nyinshi za none zivuga "gukundana" ariko urukundo rurambye ntirworoshye. Urukundo nyakuri rusaba igihe kugira ngo rukure; rusaba gutanga byinshi kuruta guhabwa. Tugomba kwiga kureba kure y'amakosa n'intege nke z'umuntu ugomba kuba uwakira urukundo rwacu.
Hari nibura amagambo agera kuri mirongo itanu mu Isezerano Rishya avuga ku rukundo kandi atatu muri yo ntagaragaza urukundo mu buryo bwiza cyane. Ijambo "philoguria" risobanura kwifuza n'umururumba; rikoreshwa muri 1 Timoteyo 6:10a, “Kuko gukunda amafaranga ari umuzi w'ibibi byose….”
Ijambo ry'Ikigiriki “philautos” ryerekeza ku rukundo rw’ubwikunde nk’uko bivugwa muri 2 Timoteyo 3:2a, “Kuko abantu bazaba abikunda, bakunda amafaranga, biratana, bishyira hejuru….”
Kandi iya gatatu, “porneia,” ari yo mbi cyane kuko ivuga ku busambanyi, ubusambanyi, n’ubusambanyi bw’abaryamana bahuje igitsina nk’uko bivugwa mu 1 Abakorinto 6:13.
Amashusho yerekana amashusho hamwe ninganda za TV byerekana gusa ibi bintu bibi byurukundo, kububaha nabi no kwerekana ko ari byiza. Urubyiruko rwiki gihe rugerageza kwigana intwari zabo nintwari kuri ecran ya feza, kandi barayobywa nibi bishushanyo bibeshya.
Igice cya cumi na gatatu cyose cyi 1 Abakorinto birashoboka ko ari urugero rwiza muri Bibiliya yerekana icyo aricyo rwose kigize urukundo rwiza, kandi dusangamo andi magambo atatu afite ibisobanuro bitandukanye.
Amagambo "agapeo na agape" agaragaza urukundo mu buryo bw'imibanire cyangwa mu by'umuco. Agapeo ni urukundo tugomba kugaragariza ndetse n'abanzi bacu ariko agape ni urukundo rutunganye rwa gikristo twagaragarizanya. Agape by'umwihariko bisobanura "urukundo cyangwa ubuntu," uru ni rwo rukundo rutunganye kandi rugaragaza neza urukundo Imana idufitiye. Hamwe na agape, cyangwa rw'urukundo , tubona urukundo "urukundo rwihangana kandi rugira neza; urukundo ntirugira ishyari; urukundo ntirwirata, ntirwishyira hejuru" (1 Abakorinto 13:4).
Phileo nurukundo inshuti nyazo zifitanye kandi nabagabo nabategarugori batari abakristu barashobora kwishimira umubano nkuyu.
Rero, tubona ko mugihe kwizera kudushoboza kuza ku Mana, urukundo ni rwo rudushoboza kumwigana.
Ibibazo byo Kwiga:
- Kuki agape, cyangwa urukundo, urukundo rwinshi? 1 Abakorinto 13: 4-8.
- Niba tugaragaje urukundo, natwe twerekana kwizera? Yakobo 2: 14-18, 26. Icyitonderwa: Ikigaragara ni uko niba ufite kwizera, imirimo isanzwe iba umusaruro. Ntushobora gutandukanya ingaruka kubitera. Abakristo bazacirwa urubanza nubwisanzure, ariryo tegeko ryurukundo.
- Urukundo rwa gikristo rugomba kugera he? Yohana 15: 9-13. Icyitonderwa: Nkuko abakristo bumvira Amagambo ya Kristo kandi bakaguma mu rukundo rwe baza kwibonera no gusobanukirwa urukundo abakunda kurushaho.
- Ni iki twavuga kubwo gufasha abavandimwe bacu bakristu? 1 Petero 4: 8-10; Abakolosayi 3: 12-14.
- Tuvuge iki ku rukundo rwa kivandimwe, cyangwa phileo? Turasabwa gukira abashyitsi? Abaheburayo 13: 1-2.
- Isi ikwiye kumenya abakristo? Nigute? Yohana 13: 34-35. Icyitonderwa: Abatizera bamenye abigishwa ba Yesu kubikorwa byabo byo gukundana.
- Ni ayahe mategeko abiri amanika amategeko n'abahanuzi? Matayo 22: 35-40.
- Kuki Yesu yabwiye umwanditsi ko atari kure y'ubwami bw'Imana? Mariko 12: 28-34.
- Urukundo nyarwo rufite imbaraga zingana iki? Indirimbo ya Salomo 8: 6-7. Icyitonderwa: Ingingo hano nuko urukundo nyarwo rudashobora kurimburwa kandi ntirushobora kugurwa.
- Ni ikihe gisubizo kizanwa n'urukundo? Hariho kandi urwango? Imigani 10: 11-13, 17-18. Icyitonderwa: Iyo abantu basubizanya urukundo bapfukirana ibyaha cyangwa ibyaha byaza hagati yabo.