Isomo ry'Ibyanditswe: Abefeso 5:22-33
Umurongo wo Kwibuka: Ubonye umugore aba abonye ikintu cyiza, kandi azagirirwa ubutoni n'Uwiteka. Imigani 18:22
Intego y'isomo: Gutekereza ku ntego z'ishyingiranwa n'ibintu by'ingenzi bizatuma abantu babaho mu buryo "butandukanye".
Ingingo z'ingenzi
- Imana ni yo yashyizeho ishyingiranwa kandi ni yo yarigize ryiza.
- Umubano w'abashakanye urengerwa gusa n'agaciro k'umuntu ku mubano we n'Imana.
- Ishyingiranwa rigamije kuduteza imbere mu ishusho ya Kristo no kuba urugero rw'ubumwe ku isi.
- Imana igomba kuba inkingi y'uburyo ubwo aribwo bwose ukoresha kugira ngo ubone uwo muzabana.
Inkoranyamagambo y’Umurage w’Ururimi rw’Icyongereza,cya , isobanura ishyingiranwa nk’ “ishyingiranwa ryemewe n’amategeko ry’umugabo n’umugore nk’umugabo n’umugore.”[1] Ishyingiranwa ni igitekerezo cy’Imana. Ni ryera. Imana yarariteguye kandi irarishyiraho mu busitani bwa Edeni. Yararikoze neza. Kimwe n’uko Adamu yari afite umubiri utunganye, ubwenge butunganye, ahantu ho kuba hatangaje, n’ibindi, yagize ishyingiranwa ritunganye, kugeza….
Imana yashakaga ko gushyingirwa biba umugisha, ntabwo ari umuvumo. Ntabwo ari ubushake bwe kugirango ishyingiranwa ryanyu ribe impanvu yububabare, gucika intege, no gutenguha mubuzima bwawe. Ahubwo, icyifuzo cye nuko watera imbere ukagira ubuzima bwiza. Ishyingiranwa ryiza ni kimwe mu bitera imbere. Ariko, ubukwe bwawe buzaba gusa icyo ubikora.
Umubano wubukwe urenze gusa mubyingenzi numubano umuntu afitanye n'Imana. Umubano wacu n'Imana ni uw'iteka kandi umubano w'ababyeyi uramba gusa. Umubano w'abashakanye uri hagati. Numubano wamasezerano kandi ugamije gutsinda no kumara ubuzima bwawe bwose.
Imana yari ifite ibintu byinshi mubitekerezo igihe yashingaga ubukwe. Yatahuye ko Adamu yari wenyine, kandi ibyo ntibyari byiza. Binyuze mu bashakanye, Imana yavuze ko Adamu akeneye ubusabane no gufashwa. Eva yari imfashanyo imukwiriye. Adamu yari amwishingikirije kugirango basohoze itegeko ry'Imana ryo kwera no kugwira. Imana yari yiteze ko barema umurage wubaha Imana kandi Imana yari izi ko Adamu adashobora kubikora wenyine. Ubwanyuma, Imana ishaka kubona ibitekerezo byayo kwisi. Adamu na Eva baremwe mwishusho yImana. Muri kamere yacyo, ubumwe bwabashakanye bugenewe kuduteza imbere mu ishusho ya Kristo no kuba intangarugero kwisi yubumwe. Ni muri urwo rwego, gushyingirwa byerekana isano ya Kristo n'umugeni we, Itorero.
Tugomba kumva akamaro ko gutangira neza. Nubwo hariho inzira nyinshi zo kubona uwo mwashakanye, Imana igomba kuba hagati yuburyo ubwo aribwo bwose bwakoreshejwe. Imana izi ibyo ukeneye kuruta uko ubizi. Iyo ubajije, menya neza ko utabaza nabi kuko ni ngombwa cyane ko uba mubushake bw'Imana. Turashobora kureba ingero zimwe na zimwe za Bibiliya tukayigiraho.
Hamwe nibikoresho byose hamwe nibikoresho byose dushobora kubona, ntihakagombye kubaho urwitwazo rwubukwe bubi mwitorero uyumunsi. Ariko, tuzi ukuri. Muri iri somo hamwe nizikurikira tuzareba ibintu bimwe byingenzi kugirango dushinge umusingi wubukwe bwiza buzahimbaza Imana.
[1] Pickett, Joseph P. Inkoranyamagambo y'Umurage w'Abanyamerika y'Ururimi rw'Icyongereza - Icya 4.Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 2000. p. 1073
Ibibazo n'ibiganiro
- Ni izihe ntego eshatu ziganje mu gushyingirwa? Itangiriro 2:18; 1 Abakorinto 11:11; Itangiriro 1: 26-28; Abefeso 5: 23-25, 32
- Ni ubuhe buryo umuntu ashobora gufata mu gushaka uwo bazabana? Suzuma ingero zikurikira muri Bibiliya. Itangiriro 24 (Isaka); Itangiriro 28 (Yakobo); Abacamanza 14-16 (Samusoni); Rusi 4 (Bowazi); Hoseya 1: 2-3 Muganire.
- Ukurikije Abanyefeso 5:23, 25-30, menya inshingano eshatu z'umugabo.
- Ukurikije Ibyanditswe bikurikira, menya inshingano enye z'umugore. Imigani 31:27; Abefeso 5:22, 33b, Tito 2: 4
- Muganire ku buryo abashakanye bashobora gusohoza neza inshingano zagaragaye mu kibazo cya 3 n'icya 4 hejuru hamwe na zimwe mu mbogamizi zo kuzuza izo nshingano.