Umurongo w'Ibyanditswe: I Abakorinto 7: 3-4.
Intangiriro:
Ibitekerezo bitandukanye bijyanye n'imibonano mpuzabitsina byahuye nabakristo, cyane cyane mumyaka yashize. Bamwe bavuga ko guhuza ibitsina ari kubyara gusa; abandi bakavuga ko ari ukunezeza; abandi bakavuga ko ari instinzi yambere idashobora gufashwa. Nkabakristo, dukwiye guhangayikishwa nuburyo Imana ibona igitsina, nuburyo ibitekerezo byayo bigira ingaruka mubuzima bwacu. Tugomba kubanza kumenya ko guhuza ibitsina, mubijyanye nubukwe, ari byiza. Kuva mu gihe cya Kristo, abakristo babwirijwe guhangana n'ikinyoma kivuga ko guhuza ibitsina ari bibi kuko bikurura ibyifuzo byacu. Mu 1 Abakorinto 7: 3-5, Pawulo ategeka abashakanye guhora kandi nta bwikunde bakorera imibonano mpuzabitsina. Imana ishaka ko abana bayo babona imigisha, imwe murimwe nubusambanyi.
Ntabwo imibonano mpuzabitsina ari nziza gusa, ni igice cyingenzi cyumugabo numugore bahinduka umubiri umwe. Iyo umugabo numugore basangiye ubuzima bwabo rwose, ntabwo bikubiyemo gusa amarangamutima, ubwenge, numwuka mubuzima, bikubiyemo igitsina. Ishusho yibanze yumugabo numugore bahinduka umubiri umwe nubumwe bwimibonano mpuzabitsina, nkuko bigaragara mu 1 Abakorinto 6: 15-20. Niyo mpamvu gusambana ari bibi cyane. Abantu babiri babaye umubiri umwe barashwanyagujwe rwose iyo umwe mubashakanye asambanye.
Kimwe mu bibazo bitesha umutwe bijyanye n'imibonano mpuzabitsina ni uko abakristo benshi batabona ko ari uburambe bwo mu mwuka. Kuri benshi, ni uburambe bwamarangamutima, ariko ntabwo aribyumwuka. Gukuraho cyangwa kwirengagiza ibintu byumwuka muburyo bwimibonano mpuzabitsina bijyana nigikorwa gishimishije, aho kuba uburambe bwo mu mwuka. Ubucuti buri hagati yumugabo numugore, burimo ubumwe bwimibonano mpuzabitsina, burahambaye cyane muburyo bwumwuka, Imana yabihisemo nkana kugirango ishushanye isano y'urukundo hagati ya Kristo na Kiliziya (Abefeso 5: 31-32).
Ibibazo by'Isomo:
- Ni izihe mpamvu eshatu zigamije imibonano mpuzabitsina mu bashakanye, nk'uko tubisanga mu Itangiriro 1: 27-28, Imigani 5: 15-19, na 1 Abakorinto 7: 3-5? Birashobora kwemezwa ko kubyara atariyo mpamvu yonyine yo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina?
- Imirongo ikurikira yigisha iki ku bijyanye n'imibonano mpuzabitsina mu bashakanye? Abaheburayo 13:4; Imigani 5:15-19; Umubwiriza 9:9; Gutegeka kwa Kabiri 24:5; 1 Abakorinto 7:3-5; Ibyakozwe n'Intumwa 20:35; Malaki 2:13-16.
Icyitonderwa: Intego y'ingenzi y'umugabo mu gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina igomba kuba kuzuza ibyo umugore we akeneye; naho abagore bagomba kuzirikana imico y'abandi iyo bakorerana imibonano mpuzabitsina. Urugero, abagore bakunda gushishikazwa mu gihe runaka; abagabo bakunda gushishikazwa mu gihe gito cyane. Ayo tandukaniro agomba kuzirikanwa. - Dushingiye ku Indirimbo ya Salomo 4:1-7 na 5:10-16, ese ni byiza kwishimira, kwitega no gushimishwa n'imibonano mpuzabitsina n'uwo mwashakanye?
Icyitonderwa: Ubumwe nyakuri bw'imibonano mpuzabitsina no kunyurwa ni ugusohora gusa umubano wa bugufi mu buryo bw'umwuka no mu buryo bw'amarangamutima hagati y'umugabo n'umugore. Kunyurwa mu mibonano mpuzabitsina ntibikwiye kuba intego y'ishyingiranwa, ahubwo bigomba gufatwa nk'ingaruka z'ishyingiranwa ry'Imana. - Ni ibihe bibazo by'abashakanye n'umuntu ku giti cye bishobora kubangamira imibonano mpuzabitsina? Abefeso 4:31; Matayo 5: 23-24; Abakolosayi 3: 8-10; Yakobo 1: 19-20; 3: 5-6; Zaburi 32: 3-4.
- Pawulo asa naho avuga ko guhuza ibitsina ari inshingano kubagabo n'abagore bo mu 1 Abakorinto 7: 3-5. Imibonano mpuzabitsina ni itegeko mu ishyingiranwa rya gikristo? Bikwiye guhora kandi bikomeza?
- Nigute Imana ibona ubusambanyi, mubikorwa no mubitekerezo? Ni izihe ngaruka zibabaje zishobora guturuka kuri iki cyaha gikomeye? Abaheburayo 13: 4; Matayo 5: 27-30; II Samweli 12: 10-15; Abacamanza 16: 16-18.
- Urugero rw'Umwami Dawidi muri II Samweli 11: 2-4 rutwigisha iki ku busambanyi n'inshingano z'umugabo zo kwirinda? Subiza kimwe kuri Batisheba. Suzuma kandi imirongo ikurikira: I Abakorinto 6: 15-20; I Timoteyo 5: 2; I Petero 3: 3-6.
- Ni uruhe ruhare Ibyanditswe bigira mu kwigisha igitsina? Tito 2: 3-6; Imigani 31: 1-2; Gutegeka kwa kabiri 6: 6-9; II Timoteyo 3: 16-17.